Thursday, July 26, 2012

Labor Part 1: The first 12 hours


2 days before birth: I woke up feeling tired as usual, but I couldn't shake it during the day. I had more little signs of labor (of which I will not go into detail: you're welcome), but I had been having little signs for weeks now. Plus lots of irregular contractions that didn't hurt. We politely declined a dinner invitation with friends because I still wasn't feeling great by the evening. Oh, and we cleaned the whole house. Yay!

36 hours before birth: We went to bed at about 11 pm, because that was our stupid habit. I fell asleep, but woke up because I was having some painful contractions.

1 am, 31 hours before birth: I realize it will not be possible to fall back asleep, and start timing my contractions. 8 min apart.

1:30 am: I wake Alex to rub my back to help me get through the contractions. 6 min apart.

3:00 am: We are up and about, puttering and trying not to get to excited. We tidy whatever is left of the house to be tidied, and finish packing our "go bags". Contractions 4 min apart.

The last belly picture at home. I. was. enormous.

3:45 am: I call the answering service, and the on-call doctor calls me back. I report that my contractions are have been 4 minutes apart for an hour and a half, and he tells me to come in. Alex and I finish packing, he showers, and we are off!

4:30 am: We arrive at the hospital, the let me walk from the ER to L&D thank goodness. We get all checked in, they start my IV (hospital policy. I asked if I could be the exception, they said no. But the nurses were funny about it!), I don't like IVs.

I had the nurse, Erin, wrap my IV so I couldn't see it. Out of sight, out of mind. 

5:00 am- 6:30 am-ish: We are walking the halls and doing laps like its the Indy 500. Contractions still 4-5 min apart. We change directions from counter clockwise to clockwise to mix things up. Woo.

A little after 7 am: The Doc comes in to say hello and check me. I'm dilated to a 2, and 100% effaced. This is about a 1/2 cm change from my appointment 2 days ago, so I am a bit disappointed. My dreams of a 6 hour labor like my mom are dashed. Doc estimated that Little Miss will be 7- 7 1/2 lbs. I am skeptical given that I was 8 1/2 lbs (10 days early no less!) at birth, and hubby was 8 lbs. Little Miss is a whole week late. He assures me she will be under 8 lbs; "either that or she is hiding it well!" I am not comforted...Contractions still 4-5 min apart.


Sometime soon after that: We are up and about doing laps again, the nurses let us into to Mom & Baby wing so we can walk past the nursery and possibly inspire Little Miss. Contractions are 4-6 minutes apart now.

Around 8 am- 24 hours before birth: We are pretty pooped since we didn't sleep last night, and my contractions have slowed down a bit despite our walking. We decide to rest for a bit. Hubby falls asleep in the reclining chair, and I miraculously doze for a while in the bed.

A couple hours later- ish, maybe around 9:30 or 10 am: New on call doc from the practice checks in, says Hi, and gives me the ok to eat breakfast. I express my shock and concern that my contractions are now 10 minutes apart, neither he nor the nurse are overly bothered. I am reassured that I won't be sent home.

11 am: Breakfast. I am grateful that this new Doc's philosophy on eating during labor is "Order a steak if you want to, I'm ok with it". Bless that man. We eat, then walk some more.

Noon- 20 hours before delivery: Contractions have not picked up. I am wondering what my options are. We ask the nurse what we can do. She says since we have already been walking, the options are really to either go home, or start pitocin. I dislike BOTH options, but agree to think about them.

To be continued...
Part 2
Part 3




Sunday, July 22, 2012

On Motherhood

I'm in the middle of writing a nice long post about my labor and delivery experience, so I hope I won't keep you all in suspense for too long. It is a very long post, because it was a very long process. Details to come.

I just wanted to write down a few thoughts about being a mommy.

I was very excited to learn that I was pregnant, but I was always very nervous too. I am a worrier by nature, and I was naturally concerned about this huge change in my life. It felt so very permanent in ways that going to college, getting married, getting a job, supporting my husband, and moving across the country didn't. I was nervous that I would get postpartum depression and not be able to enjoy my baby. I was worried that I wouldn't feel a connection to my child. I was worried that I would get frustrated easily, or be too tired. I was worried about a million things even right after I delivered her.

I can happily say now though, that I need not have worried. It took a few hours after her birth to set in, but in the scope of things, a couple measly hours is no big deal. I feel like I have known Little Miss forever, but I can't wait to get to know her personality. She is the most beautiful baby in my eyes, and I am devoted to this little bundle. So much so that when the doctor who diagnosed her hip dysplasia told us "don't worry, she's almost perfect", I almost threw something at the back of his head. She is my daughter, and she is perfect the way she is. I could stare at her forever, and I definitely cuddle with her longer than is absolutely necessary, even in the middle of the night. I love being her mother.


Monday, July 9, 2012

One week and Good News!

Little Miss is a week old! 

She hates to be changed. 

She has a great accidental smile. 

First family walk!

She looks just like her Daddy!

At the hospital when the doctor checker her out, he found out that her hips were loose in the sockets and dislocatable. He had a pediatric orthopedist come check her out and she was diagnosed with Developmental Dysplasia of the Hip (DDH). It can cause a limp and a swaying walk in children and adolescents, and painful arthritis in adults. Fortunately though, since we caught it so early she can wear a harness that will help keep her femur head in the socket and let the joint develop properly so that she won't have any problems as she grows. So she gets to wear a Pavlik Harness to help her hips develop normally. The harness looks a bit like lederhosen to me... She is in the harness full time for the next 6 weeks, and then she'll wear it when she sleeps for the next 6 weeks after that. We were thinking that she would have to wear it full time for 12 weeks, then at night until she was 6 months. We got the good news today that her femur is already staying in the socket, and that her treatment plan can be shortened. So though the harness is a bit of a hassle, I'll happily make it work. 

In short, we are a bit sleep deprived, but happily getting to know our sweet Little Miss!

Friday, July 6, 2012

Introducing...

 Our newest little Miss! We are absolutely smitten, and I now understand why first time parents are so obnoxious about their kids. I'm proud when she eats well, proud when she screams, proud when she poops a good one, and proud when she accidentally smiles at me.






Welcome to the world little one, we are so glad you are finally here!